How to keep yourself motivated

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 The 10 Things You Should Always Keep To Yourself, to keep yourself self motivated . Some things are better left unsaid. If you share everything about yourself with others, you might say things that perhaps you shouldn’t. You know… Too much info. There’s nothing wrong with keeping SOME things to yourself, and a lot of the time it’s actually better. Sometimes, keeping things safe can also be helpful in creating success! So, here are the things that you should always keep to yourself and thats how to keep yourself motivated as well as energetic. 
keep yourself motivated

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#1 Biggest Goals 

  • If you have big goals, it’s probably best not to share them with others. You’re also more likely to achieve them this way. 
  • It can be very hard because you can get much excited about your goals, but while you try work hard to reach these goals, other people’s ill opinions might gonna  cause confusion. And opinions are relative and different for everyone.
  •  It’s also really interesting to note, that studies on goal setting have shown that telling people about your goals and then getting praise for setting them, can make your brain produce the endorphins that it would, once you reached the goal. 
  • This makes you feel like you’ve already achieved something, and then you don’t work as hard to reach your goal. 

#2 Good Deeds

  •  Try not to talk much about the good things you’ve done for others. This can easily make you seem arrogant and self-serving. 
  • Those who can see your kindness, don’t need further explanation. And if you are only doing good things  just to fame  about yourself, do you think it gonna  count? Always be kind and humble. 
#3 Personal Life 

  • Your personal life is your own business. There are many  things that are best to  kept with  yourself, such as what you used to  do under the sheets, religious life of yours, and your day to day  bad habits. 
  • Telling your friends  about your personal things will open you up to common  judgment and criticism as well.
  •  Try to keeping certain portion  of your living  life a mystery,which  will make you come across much classier as well as worthy with lot more respect. 
#4 Your Wealth 

  • Some people have it better than others, and you may or may not be one of the fortunate ones.
  •  If you are, that’s great. But it’s not wise to flaunt your wealth too much and it’s best if you keep your family’s wealth to yourself. 
  • Money can corrupt friends and relatives, and when you have a lot of it, people around you are going to be jealous.
  •  If you have it, enjoy it and feel good about it, but don’t brag about it. Your financial status does not pertain to anyone, but you. 

#5 Life Philosophy 

  • Everyone needs to believe in something to get through the day. However, the emotion  that provide relief are motly different or vary from one person to another.
  •  For this reason, your individual preferences and beliefs are yours alone. Don't spend your precious time convincing others to think like you. 

#6  Family Problems 

  • All families have drama. But these are not things you should be sharing with others. 
  • Besides, the more you discuss about your family issues, the more contrdictory  it becomes.
  •  It’s also very disrespectful to share your family conflicts with others and it devalues you, as a person. 
  • Problems of individual home   are best resolved in the home itself. Of course if there is something wrong, it’s ok to tell people who are close to you, as they can provide some support. 

#7  Other People’s Secrets 

  • Do yourself a favor. Don’t be the one to talk about the private life of others. 
  • Don’t gossip about them. Just remember to mind your own business. When someone confides in you with  his or her highly confidential information, it is your  duty of course, ethically, to maintain  their secrets. 
  • If you share this information with anyone else, then the trust is broken and the relationship will be severed. Now, there are exceptions… If the situation is life threatening or endangering the life of someone.
Also read for,why do people have trust issues 

#8 Fears & amp

  •  Weaknesses Everyone has fears and weaknesses, and sharing these things will not provide you comfort.
  •  In fact, people enjoy seeing other people’s weaknesses. So don’t feed them. 
  • You can study up on your fears and weaknesses,or if that isn’t working, get some professional help. 

#9 Resentments 

  • About The Past Constantly digging up the past is not going to help. 
  • may be your past experiences can easily have affect on your  today, but do not let these destroy  the moment you are enjoying.
  • The best thing you can do is to express your self in the moment. 
  • This way you can prevent past regrets and resentments. Forgive others in order to be peaceful. Move on and let go! 

#10  Your Talents

  •  This one is actually something you can share with others. However, if you have special talents, don't talk about them constantly. 
  • Only talk about them when the right time comes. Actions speak louder than words. 
  • Apply this principle wherever you can. Don’t get me wrong, I am not insisting you to get yourself isolated and break all connection with the world.
  • But, you should have certain boundaries that are not crossed, because no matter how kind people can be, they are unpredictable. 
  • And no matter how large the circle of people around you is, in the end, we are all on our own. 

Hope you got the root point to keep youself motivated .
Hope you do well with your life ahead,

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